To the place I belong

…so the song goes.

After several days at End of the Road Retreat in Broadway, Virginia, we wound our way back down the gravel country road headed to West Virginia.


It didn’t take long before we hit the steep grades, some marked at 55 mph. 55? That’s a laugh.

Although the day was a bit overcast, the drive was amazingly pleasant, along those winding roads.

Germany Valley Overlook – site of Hinkle’s Fort 1761-62


Our friends had advised us that the last five miles to the cabin would be on a gravel road. We timed it perfectly to travel those final miles in the rain! ha! (Well, at least it wasn’t dark…)


It had been almost two years since we last saw James and Carol when we had the pleasure of spending a few days aboard their (former) boat, Excalibur, our own adventures having kept us south. So, warm welcome hugs were exchanged before stepping inside for the grand tour of Al’s Lone Pine Camp, i.e., the family cabin built by Carol’s father.

The next day, the weather cleared, and the exploring began. First up, a meandering circular hike through Al’s land, then on to the nearby property James & Carol own, then through a chunk of the Monongahela National Park Forest, and finally back to the Camp! Whew! Next, we climbed into James’ truck to go to Blackwater Falls State Park.


There was plenty of soaking in the incredible scenery, watching the robins work the grass, and “let’s take that circle walk, again!” The walk is partially on National Park land with other more serious trails that we weren’t up to (“yet!” adds the one of us with the limp and the new hip). But it’s amazing to relax chatting and catching up, and not to mention games! Okay we won’t mention those. Especially since the guys kept winning… (Hey, Carol, do you think there was any cheating going on?? Nah. Next time, guys. Next time. )



On one of our driving trips, James surprised us with a stop at the Bowden Fish Hatchery before we explored Graceland, the historic Victorian home of Senator Henry Davis on the campus of Davis and Elkins College. At 16,000 square feet and built in 1893, she is beautiful. Her 10 rooms and suites will open very soon, complete with a restaurant. Heck, we were only about a week early. Had to go find our own lunch.


Back at the cabin, Carol showed us the spring up the road a piece, where we gathered water daily for the next morning’s coffee.


The days of eating too much, walking (thank goodness), game playing, and healthy laughter, lead up to Easter Sunday, our final day together. Once the rain stopped, we set out to gather the aforementioned ramps to add to dinner. What’s a ramp, you say? Think a cross between a small wild leek and an onion. Some say pungent; others say yum!

After a week of gastronomic indulgence put on by our talented hosts, what did we do for Easter dinner? Well, we ate too much once again, of course! BBQ chicken, fresh veggies, homemade sourdough bread, black raspberry jelly, pickles, peach cobbler… The list goes on. What a feast!


Monday morning, we waddled out of bed to help clean up the cabin, packed the vehicles, and headed off in our separate directions. Back out on those country roads, we twisted, turned, and did plenty of that up and down travel Todd enjoys, making our way to Charleston.


James & Carol, thank you for sharing your piece of “Almost Heaven” down those country roads!

And we’re off!

No, not our rockers (although some might argue the point), on our next round of adventure – Vagabonding, Chapter 1.

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Now back to the story.

When we could, we studied, plotted and planned to come up with our first destination.

In the end, truth be told, overwhelmed by the studying, Susie sort of threw a dart.

First stop, a month in Texas Hill Country to see the spring wildflowers bloom and be in the path of totality for the eclipse on April 8.

Sounds idyllic, right?

O-o-p-s, not so fast.

A last-minute text from our soon-to-be granddaughter changed everything. “Guess what?! We’re getting married!! … April 7! … in… (wait for it) … West Virginia!”

So rather than TX, we’re heading to WV. It’s okay. There will certainly be a wildflower or two, and it’s not every day you add family. We wouldn’t miss it!

Note: They probably don’t know/remember that 4/7 was Todd’s father’s (interpretation: the groom’s great grandfather’s) birthday. A special day all around!


It’s called West VIRGINIA ’cause it’s just WEST of Virginia. Shorter first leg. Hey, that’s a good thing. Long week to get there. And we actually have cruiser friends out there somewhere; more on that later.

After pausing for one more family hug in Mechanicsville (and to dump the last pile of “too much” stuff! 😉 ), we headed for a three-night stop-over in Broadway, VA. We found the End of the Road Retreat cabin rental on the interwebs, and, as anticipated, it was a picturesque 155-mile drive. The last scenic mile was on a twisting, up and up-ly down (a new Todd phrase meaning mostly UP)-hill, gravel road. The 5-mph recommended speed limit was not exceeded!


Behind the cabin, while it’s not the ocean, there’s a spectacular view!


In addition to the shuffleboard hiding under that long table, there’s this contraption off the side deck:

Just where are all those grandchildren when you need them? Nana wants to push someone off the deck! LOL


Yes, this will do nicely.


To cap our first stop, we found this sign just inside the front door.

Thank you to the many, many folks who have kept us in prayer since the events of July 29. God is so good!


What’s next? Well, today we’ll head 12 miles west to enter WEST Virginia and then travel another couple of hours to join our first Selene friends, James & Carol (former owners of the beautiful Selene 57 Excalibur) for almost a week at their family cabin in the hills…no Wi-Fi or cell service…….. 🙂

We’ll be back in touch April 1. Ya’ll stay safe!

Embracing change

Once the boat deal was done and that proverbial door closed, it was time to focus forward and figure out how to get moving again. Our lives needed quite a bit of organization if we were to pull this off – and remember “we” have a Todd. 🙂

How true!


First up, a week in Wilmington to check off a round of medical follow-up / “wellness” visits. The appointments were spaced far enough apart as to allow some time to wander about playing tourist. One day it was the downtown area, including the Riverwalk, Bellamy Mansion, and the Railroad Museum, where we learned – among other things – that the conductor, housed in the caboose, was actually the boss.

She continued the role reversal that evening by trying to set up our camera self-timer and run over into the shot, which is usually Todd’s specialty.


A couple days later, we hit the NC Aquarium at Fort Fisher (along with what seemed like two hundred small children – ha!) and Fort Fisher State Park for some chilly educational reading about the loss of the fort before warming up with a nice hike.


Beyond appointments, visits, and trips to the storage unit, there was the need for a family truckster, so all the while, we were hitting auto dealerships, both within a 500-mile radius online and in person while on the road. The search was on.

Then one morning during our coffee-time search, there it was, fifteen minutes from the rental “condo” – our new wheels, traded in the day before!


We are blessed with so much family in Hampton Roads. It was wonderful to spend time with everyone. Priceless!


To establish some connections that we might use in other places, we explored and joined both the Norfolk Botanical Garden and the Virginia Zoo. Norfolk’s mascot provided Susie the opportunity to embrace her inner (landlocked) mermaid. Hey, Honey, what happened to that tan??


We mentioned trips to the storage unit. To whine completely (and with a visual aid), 22 miles one way! Total trips? 732,123,654 million! Or so it seemed. That was Todd’s estimate…

Every time, we thought we were almost there – surely we’ll fit in the car now. Test fit, and nope. More to storage. Test fit, and nope, yet again. After our lease ran out on the “joint,” we made several trips to stay an extra week in a hotel to cull through the load once again!

But we finally made it; we fit in the car with room to spare, as long as we didn’t want to add more than a dozen eggs or so…

Took the extra to you-know-where!

No, no, Honey. Not you. Get out of there & let’s lock it up. Don’t you want to go vagabonding?!

One door…

December into January was a blur. Think ….

Transferring a whole LIFE from a boat into a small “condo/apartment” rental is tough. Moving all worldly possessions, fixing, cleaning, sprucing, crying, … yeah, yeah, heard all about it, la de da.

To us it was very emotional; let’s just end with that.

Point to this is that Susie’s second right hand (the camera) was forgotten and finally found whilst cleaning the helm! Hence not a lot of action captured.

Susie did capture one of Todd’s final Boat Yoga moves. Right hand, charger install! Left foot Yanmar surround!

On January 27, we cruised over to Portsmouth Boating Center and tied up to await the coming survey.

The prep was over. It was Show Time! (Susie, that’s enough already. Put down the cleaning supplies. She’s beautiful.)


Next up, was the very thorough inspection. When we say “thorough,” we mean rigorous, from bow to stern and flybridge to keel, meticulous two and a half days (approximately 23 hours) of inspection. Of course, knowing us, some of that time may have been spent chatting. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯


The big girl showed well. However, after several months of non-use, the outboard on the dinghy wouldn’t start, so the Lil Filly had to make a road trip.


After watching Mike from Portsmouth Boating Center (note to our fellow cruisers: he is a gem!) drive off with the dinghy in tow, we took advantage of the beautiful day to take SaltyMare back to a new slip at Tidewater Yacht Marina.

Captain Todd’s final turn at the helm – oh how he loves being there!
SaltyMare sitting pretty in the slip

We then walked the 1.5 miles back to retrieve the car. These would have come in handy…


A week later, the Lil Filly was repaired and back in the water at Portsmouth Boating Center, raring to go. Todd bundled up and took off around Hospital Point to Tidewater Yacht Marina so we could load the dinghy back aboard the SaltyMare. It was such a short trip, however, that he got there before the first mate could – drive this time – back to the boat to ready the crane. (To be fair, one of us was doing uninterrupted donuts at 20 knots [whee!] and the other was stopping at multiple Stop signs.)


All the details were finalized Friday the 9th, and the keys changed hands Saturday, February 10. Our dreamboat is now someone else’s dream come true.

Good luck, Don & Ariel. We are thankful she’s in good hands, and we know she will treat you well! Happy cruising!!

Also, thank you for the fantastic keepsake!

And with that, one door closes, and another opens…

Pssst, Honey, we really need to buy a car for this next adventure…

Gulp. A new beginning

“Okay, you arrived in Portsmouth, Virginia, in September. It’s now almost 2024. What have you been doing? And what’s the plan??”

Over these few months, we’ve nursed our collective selves back to health. Todd’s recovery is going really well, and Susie is getting around quite nicely on her new hip. Receiving the new hip led us to restart walking, and lo and behold, being docked in downtown Portsmouth allowed for plenty of exploration in the historic area.


Being in the area of Susie’s hometown, we’ve had visits with friends and family.


We made several road trips, some for medical follow-up (props to the great team of physicians in NC) and some to visit friends (thank you, Dave & Peggy) and family (it was great to see all the Smiths in upstate PA!).

We also bade farewell to cruising friends who’re heading to the islands. Have fun, John & Mads, Greg & Glenda, Barry & Robin – and heck, even new friends, Ben, Brenda and kids on Haste Away. We are so jealous, but I guess that’s the point!

We gathered with family for Thanksgiving and Christmas, naturally. Good times had by all.

During all this busyness, our primary focus has been on reflection and soul searching for the way forward. We discussed options. We bickered. We cried. We hugged. (And repeat, repeat, and repeat.) In the end, we’ve made the difficult, bittersweet decision to give up the cruising life and sell the boat. Hopefully, SaltyMare will soon move on to good times with a new family.

Thanks for the memories, girl. What a ride!

Although the sun is setting on this adventure and we’re becoming land lubbers again, that doesn’t mean we’re done exploring. Not by a long shot. As this chapter closes, the vehicle will change (speaking of which, Honey, we need to buy a car…), but the adventures will continue with the start of a new chapter.

About life, some say, “keep your knees flexed.” …. Hold it!

Todd “note:”

How does one give up a dream and flex their knees? Good grief! Alert! Here comes life advice from one man’s journey.

Apparently, one first laughs, grouses, yells, tries quietly arguing, even crying. Not in any order, heck sometimes all at the same time! Pout for a day and then start all over! All the above. Silly, silly boy. One must always remember we are all “Captains of our own ship.” Yeah, it’s tough to bring sense to oneself. Sure does help to have an amazing partner in life. Thanks Lord, for hooking me up with her!

Oh, and this crazy mug points its face right towards me every day….. despite being glued back together several times by its wonderful owner.